Today’s blog is about how we treat others. I am mostly going to talk about how us humans tend to want to get ahead of others, treat others with lack of respect, and alright try to hurt one another both intentionally and unintentionally.
I think life is way too short to cause pain, suffering, and discomfort upon others of your own kind. And what I mean about our own kind is every living breathing thing on this planet. I am going to describe some examples of the negatives in which humans do to other fellow humans as well as animals.
Example 1: You have business men going to personal and unethical means to try and destroy another person’s business and lively hood. If your business is better, great. But we must people concern themselves with what the other guy is doing and then talk garbage about them or do things that can hurt their business. They just need to be concerned about their business and maybe even make friends with other businesses as their is enough clients to go around.
Example 2: We have pet owners that mistreat their dogs, cats, and other pets by not feeding them, tying them up all the time, beating on them, and so on and so forth. Animals do not have the ability to speak up for themselves or realize that this type of behavior is not correct and they do not deserve it. If you cannot take care of a pet properly then do not get or have one. Animals have feelings and no living breathing creature of god deserves to be mistreated. If you know of someone who is mistreating their pets, please contact the proper authorities.
Example 3: Then we have abusive parents. We all know what I am talking about. They are the parents that physically and verbally go to far when punishing their children or sometimes just because. Parents that should not have children. Like animals, most children up to a certain point of age don’t understand that they do not deserve physical, mental, or emotional abuse. We need to protect our children and help them to grow into awesome adults. Once again please report abusive parents but be careful to know all the facts. There is a lot of parents who get visited by child services that do not need to be. Every person has their own view on what is too much and that is where the law steps in. Please use good judgment. If you are a parent, who know in your heart what is right for your children.
Example 4: Relationships that go sower. I have seen both men treating women badly and women treating men badly. This can both be about romantic and or friendship based relationships. You see when someone stops caring for someone else they just start treating them badly and making their lives miserable. I say that it does not need to be this way. If two people decide to end their romantic and or friendship base relationship then just go your separate ways and do not bother each other. Be on good terms with all.
Example 5: Now you go the well known jerk who treats everyone like a piece of crap. You know at least one person like this. This is the guy/girl who is just plain rude, acts like a jerk, goes out of their way to get ahead of others, and doesn’t mind screwing with other people’s lives just for the fun of it. Well some people are like this, I will never know. This type of person needs to realize that they will never truly appreciate the beauty of life if they keep acting this way.
Okay so basically I gave you some negative examples of how people can treat others badly. So what can one do to concentrate on the positives. Well here is a list of somethings you can do.
1. Treat everyone with courtesy and respect.
2. Go out of your way to be friendly with everyone.
3. Be there when someone needs you.
4. If you must end a relationship, do so a way that minimizes the hurt.
5. Treat everyone the way you want to be treated.
6. Lead by setting a positive example for all others.
7. Go and find ways to treat others better. Search the web for ideas using articles and books.
I truly believe we can create a better tomorrow by starting to treat others the way we want to be treated today.
Master Jonathan Field